Core principles
- Treat everyone with respect — the scene works because people trust strangers.
- No harassment, hate speech, or discrimination of any kind.
- Consent first: read the room, ask before you touch, back off when asked.
- Keep it safe: no violence, no weapons, no illegal activity.
- Protect the trust: don't share private info, photos, or messages without consent.
For hosts
- Set expectations clearly: describe the vibe, dress code, and door policy up front.
- Keep your guestlist accurate and respect RSVP commitments.
- Respond to guest questions promptly and treat everyone with respect.
- Follow local laws on capacity, noise, safety, and age restrictions.
Enforcement
Violations can lead to warnings, suspensions, or permanent removal. If you feel unsafe or witness misconduct, reach out to our safety team.